Gum Addiction

Why does my 15-month old daughter love Trident so much? She doesn't eat it. No, she lovingly examines, caresses and unwraps each piece and then either piles up the pieces neatly or gives them to others.

Whatever it is, I think it is genetic. Chase did the same thing.

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The Wonder Twins Again

Why is it that if Alyssa sleeps through the night, Chase wakes up instead? Why is it that if Chase is playing quietly so that I can get some writing done, Alyssa suddenly needs my full attention? Is it a conspiracy?: "Hey, I am too busy to bother her right now so why don't you take over?" I do not HEAR them talking and Alyssa can not really talk yet anyway.

This is where I come back to my Wonder Twin example. No, my kids are not twins but they are brother and sister like the Wonder Twins. Remember how the Wonder Twins could send silent messages to each other in times of danger? Have my kids been watching this show? Does it even come on anymore?

Hmmmm....

"Wonder Twin Powers, Activate!"

The coming of nightfall brings a mysterious occurrence to our home every night. Our once peaceful household is gradually filled with increasing amounts of activity. As I am getting more and more tired and starting to settle everyone down for the night, the kids seemed to have some invisible source of energy.

Remember the Superfriends and the Justice League of America Saturday morning cartoons? Remember the really cool Wonder Twins? They had a routine in which they would touch hands and shout "Wonder Twin powers, activate!" and then they would be able to take the form of different shapes. Well my kids are not twins and though I have never witnessed them doing it, I am convinced that this is their mantra every evening.

It seems that the nonverbal 1-year old (Alyssa) and the very verbal 4-year old (Chase) must secretly get together and shout "Activate!" every day around 6 pm. Alyssa begins dancing her bouncing, arm-waving routine as Chase begins crawling around pretending he is a dog (complete with barking) or using his ruler as a sword. Next, Alyssa starts chasing her brother around squealing with glee as he pertends to run from her. Then, Alyssa may take a break from that game to spend some time twirling around the middle of the floor until she gets dizzy while Chase gets his Dad to start wrestling. Alyssa quickly comes to the scene of the full-body contact and literally throws her body on the pile. (All this is happening while I am either trying to finish my writing for the day or straightening up and making preparations for bedtime).

Eventually, my "Wonder Twins" succumb to my best efforts to settle them down. This is no easy task and usually requires some superhero strength of my own. After everyone is asleep, I spend time asking myself what I can do differently the following night to thwart my little heroes and their nighttime activation.

Suggestions anyone?

The Mommy Mysteries

So much of life with little ones seems very mysterious. Even the wisest, most seasoned Grandma's among us seem to have a hard time answering certain questions like:

Why do little ones always need something from you, begin to sing loudly or find musical instruments to play as soon as you get on the telephone? They were fine a few minutes ago, but now... In my home, I can be sitting at the computer, relatively undisturbed as Alysaa, 15 months and Chase, 4 years, play quietly and (relatively) peacefully nearby. Uh-oh, the phone is ringing! Mommy is about to talk to someone so it's time for all bedlam to break loose! Whining or crying, tugging and pulling along with banging and shouting seem to erupt all at once. Can anyone explain this mystery to me?